FAQ’s

  • Both will take place at The Wilder Mansion in Elmhurst, Illinois.

  • The ceremony will be in the Grand Garden, followed by an outdoor cocktail hour before guests are welcomed inside for the reception.

  • Please arrive between 4:00 - 4:20 PM. The ceremony begins promptly at 4:30 PM.

  • We kindly invite our guests to celebrate in formal attire.

  • If your invitation includes "& Guest" or lists your guest by name, we've happily reserved a seat for them as well.

  • Please click here: RSVP
    Enter your full name as written on your invitation envelope and follow the prompts.

  • While we adore your little ones, due to the nature of our historic venue, our wedding will be an adults-only occasion

  • We are able to accommodate medical dietary needs, including gluten-free and major allergies.
    Please note any restrictions on your RSVP.

  • Yes! Click here to reserve: Travel & Stay

    A room block is reserved at Le Méridien Oakbrook Center, located 15 minutes from Wilder Mansion.

    The hotel is situated beside Oakbrook Center, an outdoor mall with a mix of classic luxury and upscale retailers, popular brands, and an exceptional collection of dining and entertainment options. It’s the perfect place to shop or enjoy a cocktail throughout our wedding weekend.

  • Guests may drive or use rideshare services. Ample parking is available at The Mansion.

  • We are registered at Amazon and Crate & Barrel
    Links may be found on our Registry page.

  • Here are some of our favorite nearby spots for cocktails or light bites:

    • Beatrix – daytime café; the bride’s favorite spot for coffee & matcha

    • Blanco Cocina & Cantina – upscale Mexican, vibrant ambiance

    • Old Town Pour House – craft beers, relaxed setting

    • The Table at Crate – modern American

    • RH Rooftop Restaurant – rooftop elegance, city views

    • Ghost Trap – Speakeasy with lounge-style atmosphere